The parties were married out of community of property in December 1972 for almost 29 years and had two sons, both majors and self-supporting by the time of the trial. In December 2000, the appellant left the matrimonial home after forming a relationship with another woman. That relationship failed within six months, and he thereafter formed an intimate relationship with another man with whom he cohabited, moving to Steytlerville. In April 2001, after the appellant moved out, the respondent became friendly with Tim Smith after his wife Diana died. By April 2003, the respondent moved into Mr Smith's home and they cohabited as man and wife. This arrangement, initially regarded as temporary, became permanent over the almost eight years before the trial. Mr Smith fully maintained the respondent unconditionally, providing accommodation, support, and maintenance for her and her son Mark (who lived with them for two years). In February 2003, the respondent issued divorce summons claiming maintenance and half the appellant's estate. A settlement was reached in September 2003, but the appellant was sequestrated the day before the divorce hearing, preventing implementation. The respondent's assets were frozen until late 2007. By the time of trial in February 2010, all proprietary claims had been settled and only the maintenance claim remained. The respondent was diagnosed with cancer in April 2009 and spent almost R180,000 on treatment, as the appellant had removed her from his medical aid in 2006.