1. In custody matters, the best interests of the child are paramount and override parental preferences or financial means (s 81(2) of the Constitution). A parent's violence, hostility, denial of access to the other parent, and the children's fear of that parent are relevant considerations against awarding custody. 2. In distribution of jointly owned matrimonial property, there is a rebuttable presumption that joint owners own property in equal shares, strengthened when the parties are married. A joint owner is entitled to their half share of proceeds. 3. A spouse claiming maintenance must establish need. Where a spouse deliberately disempowers and impoverishes their partner by preventing them from working and denying access to family business income, that spouse cannot escape the duty to pay rehabilitative maintenance upon divorce. 4. In assessing children's maintenance, courts must take a pragmatic view of the paying party's means and ensure children maintain their accustomed standard of living, applying s 7(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Act. 5. An appellate court will not interfere with discretionary orders (property distribution, custody, maintenance, costs) unless there is evidence the lower court acted on wrong principles, allowed irrelevant matters to guide it, or failed to consider relevant factors.