The parties were married on 13 October 2012 out of community of property with the accrual system. Two minor children were born of the marriage: L M J (9 years old) and H A J (4 years old). The respondent vacated the matrimonial home on 31 December 2023, and the applicant vacated on 14 September 2024. The respondent subsequently moved back into the matrimonial home. The parties have been separated since 31 December 2023.
During the marriage, the applicant ceased formal employment after the birth of their first child at the respondent's request. The respondent was the primary breadwinner throughout the marriage. At the time of the application, the applicant was earning approximately R10,000 per month as a contractor trainee, while also receiving R14,100 per month from the respondent's company. The respondent was paying approximately R37,758 per month for the children and applicant (R14,100 cash contribution plus R24,658 in direct expenses including school fees and medical aid).
The applicant brought a Rule 43 application seeking: (1) maintenance of R10,000 per child per month; (2) spousal maintenance of R30,000 per month; (3) contribution to legal costs of R80,000; (4) payment of school fees; (5) maintenance on medical aid; and (6) defined contact rights. The respondent opposed the application and brought a counter-application for increased contact and shared residency of the children.