1. Adultery may be proved by direct evidence from a party to the adultery or by circumstantial evidence. The triad of desire, opportunity, and willingness will often be sufficient to justify an inference of adultery. 2. Where a spouse condones adultery and the marriage still subsists, there is no actual loss of consortium and therefore no damages can be awarded under that head. The wife need not have left the matrimonial home for condonation to operate. 3. Damages for contumelia (injury, hurt, insult and indignity inflicted upon the innocent spouse) remain available even where adultery is condoned and the marriage subsists. 4. Factors to be considered in assessing contumelia damages include: (a) the character of the woman/man involved; (b) the social economic status of the parties; (c) whether the defendant has shown contrition and apologized; (d) the need for deterrent measures; and (e) the level of awards in similar cases adjusted for inflation. 5. Aggravating factors for contumelia damages include: intrusion into a stable marriage, abuse of trust and position of authority, lack of remorse, and age disparity between the adulterer and the innocent spouse.