The plaintiff and defendant married on 19 January 2013, with the plaintiff being a widower and the defendant a spinster. They had two children together, born in December 2013 and February 2019. The plaintiff issued summons for divorce in November 2016, alleging that irreconcilable differences had developed, causing the defendant to move out and live with her parents. The parties were given an opportunity during pre-trial conference to salvage the marriage, but this did not succeed despite a second child being born during that period. The plaintiff lived on a farm while the defendant lived with her parents, with the parties not enjoying a continuous marriage relationship for approximately 3 years. The plaintiff testified he had lost all love and affection for the defendant. The defendant, a devoted Christian, opposed the divorce on religious grounds, believing that God hates divorce and that the marriage could be salvaged through prayer.
1. A decree of divorce was granted. 2. Custody of the two minor children (Chikombero Vushangwe born 1 December 2013 and Chishamiso Vushangwe born 20 February 2019) was awarded to the defendant. 3. The plaintiff was granted access to the minor children twice every month during the first and third weekends. 4. The plaintiff was ordered to pay maintenance for the minor children at the rate of RTGS$350 per month per child with effect from 1 January 2020 until each child attains the age of 18 years or becomes self-supporting, whichever occurs sooner. 5. Each party to pay their own costs.
Whether a marriage has irretrievably broken down is a question of fact to be determined on the circumstances of each case, with the court examining whether the marriage relationship between the parties can be described as normal. The guidelines in section 5 of the Matrimonial Causes Act are not exhaustive, and if facts in the guidelines are found to exist, there is a rebuttable presumption that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. Where one party is strongly convinced there is no marriage and the circumstances support this conclusion, showing no reasonable prospects of restoring a normal marriage relationship, the court must grant a decree of divorce. Marriage is essentially a social rather than legal institution, and when it has irreparably deteriorated, neither the state nor society has a justifiable interest in attempting to preserve by legal controls that which by social controls can no longer be maintained.
The court made observations about the incompatibility between the parties, noting they did not show any compatibility even in court. The court commented that despite a pronouncement in support of a marriage, if the circumstances demonstrate irretrievable breakdown, the marriage will not be saved by judicial order. The court also observed that the parties' meetings were adhoc and likely influenced more by the bond of their children than by love between themselves. The court cited J. Petersen's statement from "Divorce Law Reform" [1971] 88 SALT 478 at 479 regarding the social versus legal nature of marriage and the state's interest in preservation.
This case illustrates the application of the irretrievable breakdown test for divorce under the Matrimonial Causes Act [Chapter 5:13]. It demonstrates that the court's assessment of irretrievable breakdown is a factual inquiry that examines whether a normal marriage relationship exists, and that religious objections by one party cannot prevent a divorce where the evidence shows the marriage has irretrievably broken down. The case reinforces the principle that marriage is essentially a social rather than legal institution, and the state has no justifiable interest in attempting to preserve by legal controls what can no longer be maintained by social controls. It also shows that the birth of a child during divorce proceedings does not automatically rebut the presumption of irretrievable breakdown.